Day Four: Love is Thoughtful. The Dare was to contact your spouse during the day and simply ask how they are doing and if there is anything you can do for them. This one seemed easy enough, since we do talk to each other during the day, either phone calls, texts, or emails. Some days we talk several times throughout the day, others maybe just once. Today, it was more of me calling this afternoon to ask him if there was anything I could get for him at the store. He called this morning, to ask how I was feeling.